Comments on: She Got the Look: Khan v. Abercrombie & Fitch http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2011/06/29/she_got_the_loo/ All that flavorful brownness in one savory packet Sat, 30 Nov 2013 11:11:28 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: boston_mahesh http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2011/06/29/she_got_the_loo/comment-page-2/#comment-285409 boston_mahesh Sat, 09 Jul 2011 05:41:59 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=6588#comment-285409 <p>Good point, Pravin. Also, I don't see Hindu women suing A&F because A&F wouldn't allow them to wear saris and/or bindhis. Bindhis, after all, is a very Hindu thing. You never see Muslims Christians , or Sikhs (although this is changing amongst the urbanites).</p> <p>I, personally, wouldn't support a Hindu girl who would sue an A&F for firing her for wearing a bhindi, even though a bhindi is even more discrete than a hijab.</p> Good point, Pravin. Also, I don’t see Hindu women suing A&F because A&F wouldn’t allow them to wear saris and/or bindhis. Bindhis, after all, is a very Hindu thing. You never see Muslims Christians , or Sikhs (although this is changing amongst the urbanites).

I, personally, wouldn’t support a Hindu girl who would sue an A&F for firing her for wearing a bhindi, even though a bhindi is even more discrete than a hijab.

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By: Pravin Praveen http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2011/06/29/she_got_the_loo/comment-page-2/#comment-285407 Pravin Praveen Sat, 09 Jul 2011 03:14:14 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=6588#comment-285407 <p>Considering many Muslim women do not wear a hijab to work, can they claim that this is essential part of the religion?</p> Considering many Muslim women do not wear a hijab to work, can they claim that this is essential part of the religion?

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By: notReally http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2011/06/29/she_got_the_loo/comment-page-2/#comment-285405 notReally Fri, 08 Jul 2011 22:38:29 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=6588#comment-285405 <p>"My point is that when you take your religion that seriously and wear articles of clothing purely because they are a representation of your religion, I believe you hold the teachings/values of your religion very firmly. Why would you then associate yourself or seek employment with an entity that represents exact opposite of that (modesty for women)?"</p> <p>who knows, maybe a host of reasons, but more importantly, who cares?</p> <p>Maybe she needed the money? Maybe it was just a temporary gig. Maybe she felt by working in the stock room and making a point about wearing her hijab, she was comfortable in her own religion, but understood that she lived in a different society one in which she might have to work for companies run by people who don't see eye-to-eye with her on every issue.</p> <p>I happen to think this is a big issue with some muslims in general. I was at an 'american' wedding one of the bride's maids was a hijabi. She wouldn't shake anyone's hands stating "religious reasons" One may ask. why go to social events, and live in a country where shaking hands is standard protocol for greeting, if her religion prohibits her from it? I dunno, it must be pretty tough, but she does it and still walks away from it all saying she's "American"</p> <p>I'm not familiar with A & F here, I think they represent a little bit more than "immodesty for women" but the way you (and other people going on and on about the 'hypocrisy' of it all) describe it, I'd think it was the moonlite bunny ranch.</p> “My point is that when you take your religion that seriously and wear articles of clothing purely because they are a representation of your religion, I believe you hold the teachings/values of your religion very firmly. Why would you then associate yourself or seek employment with an entity that represents exact opposite of that (modesty for women)?”

who knows, maybe a host of reasons, but more importantly, who cares?

Maybe she needed the money? Maybe it was just a temporary gig. Maybe she felt by working in the stock room and making a point about wearing her hijab, she was comfortable in her own religion, but understood that she lived in a different society one in which she might have to work for companies run by people who don’t see eye-to-eye with her on every issue.

I happen to think this is a big issue with some muslims in general. I was at an ‘american’ wedding one of the bride’s maids was a hijabi. She wouldn’t shake anyone’s hands stating “religious reasons” One may ask. why go to social events, and live in a country where shaking hands is standard protocol for greeting, if her religion prohibits her from it? I dunno, it must be pretty tough, but she does it and still walks away from it all saying she’s “American”

I’m not familiar with A & F here, I think they represent a little bit more than “immodesty for women” but the way you (and other people going on and on about the ‘hypocrisy’ of it all) describe it, I’d think it was the moonlite bunny ranch.

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By: Ravinder http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2011/06/29/she_got_the_loo/comment-page-2/#comment-285403 Ravinder Fri, 08 Jul 2011 20:01:03 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=6588#comment-285403 <p>@notReally:</p> <blockquote> <blockquote> <blockquote> <blockquote> <p>Civil Rights law doesn't allow discrimination based on religion</p> </blockquote> </blockquote> </blockquote> </blockquote> <p>I agree 100%. I wasn't arguing the point that what A&F did is right.</p> <p>I was just commenting from a different perspective.</p> <blockquote> <blockquote> <blockquote> <p>in her mind, the hijab is a representation of her religion</p> </blockquote> </blockquote> </blockquote> <p>And what does hijab really represent? - Modesty for women in Islam. My point is that when you take your religion that seriously and wear articles of clothing purely because they are a representation of your religion, I believe you hold the teachings/values of your religion very firmly. Why would you then associate yourself or seek employment with an entity that represents exact opposite of that (modesty for women)?</p> @notReally:

Civil Rights law doesn’t allow discrimination based on religion

I agree 100%. I wasn’t arguing the point that what A&F did is right.

I was just commenting from a different perspective.

in her mind, the hijab is a representation of her religion

And what does hijab really represent? – Modesty for women in Islam. My point is that when you take your religion that seriously and wear articles of clothing purely because they are a representation of your religion, I believe you hold the teachings/values of your religion very firmly. Why would you then associate yourself or seek employment with an entity that represents exact opposite of that (modesty for women)?

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By: notReally http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2011/06/29/she_got_the_loo/comment-page-2/#comment-285394 notReally Fri, 08 Jul 2011 05:34:59 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=6588#comment-285394 <p>All this stuff about her being hypocritical, or working for a douchey company or her not being a true muslim and all that nonsense is secondary. You might even argue it's arbitrary what comes under "religion" when it comes to discrimination, ie people making up religions and saying X, Y, and Z is against their religion. But the point is she WORKED THERE for 4 months, and all of a sudden A & F's boundary shifted inwards. That's their problem.</p> All this stuff about her being hypocritical, or working for a douchey company or her not being a true muslim and all that nonsense is secondary. You might even argue it’s arbitrary what comes under “religion” when it comes to discrimination, ie people making up religions and saying X, Y, and Z is against their religion. But the point is she WORKED THERE for 4 months, and all of a sudden A & F’s boundary shifted inwards. That’s their problem.

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By: notReally http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2011/06/29/she_got_the_loo/comment-page-2/#comment-285393 notReally Fri, 08 Jul 2011 05:31:18 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=6588#comment-285393 <p>"A woman wearing a hijab does not exactly fit that picture for most of the consumers in the USA. I am an atheist myself and completely respect other people's choice of faith but wonder - if the hijab symbolizes modesty of women in Islam, why work for a company that symbolizes exact opposite of that? Is it convenience based faith?"</p> <p>Missing the point.</p> <p>There's really only these points that matter:</p> <p>-they let her work there for 4 months -they fired her, after asking her to remove her hijab, and she wouldn't -in her mind, the hijab is a representation of her religion -Civil Rights law doesn't allow discrimination based on religion</p> <p>hence, they broke the law.</p> “A woman wearing a hijab does not exactly fit that picture for most of the consumers in the USA. I am an atheist myself and completely respect other people’s choice of faith but wonder – if the hijab symbolizes modesty of women in Islam, why work for a company that symbolizes exact opposite of that? Is it convenience based faith?”

Missing the point.

There’s really only these points that matter:

-they let her work there for 4 months -they fired her, after asking her to remove her hijab, and she wouldn’t -in her mind, the hijab is a representation of her religion -Civil Rights law doesn’t allow discrimination based on religion

hence, they broke the law.

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By: Ravinder http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2011/06/29/she_got_the_loo/comment-page-2/#comment-285392 Ravinder Fri, 08 Jul 2011 04:47:50 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=6588#comment-285392 <p>Whether you agree or not, the modern day society is very "look" conscious. Companies (especially clothing & cosmetics) try to market their product as "sexy" or "cool looking in a sexy way". A woman wearing a hijab does not exactly fit that picture for most of the consumers in the USA. I am an atheist myself and completely respect other people's choice of faith but wonder - if the hijab symbolizes modesty of women in Islam, why work for a company that symbolizes exact opposite of that? Is it convenience based faith?</p> Whether you agree or not, the modern day society is very “look” conscious. Companies (especially clothing & cosmetics) try to market their product as “sexy” or “cool looking in a sexy way”. A woman wearing a hijab does not exactly fit that picture for most of the consumers in the USA. I am an atheist myself and completely respect other people’s choice of faith but wonder – if the hijab symbolizes modesty of women in Islam, why work for a company that symbolizes exact opposite of that? Is it convenience based faith?

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By: DisHijabAndShoveIt http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2011/06/29/she_got_the_loo/comment-page-2/#comment-285347 DisHijabAndShoveIt Wed, 06 Jul 2011 05:14:28 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=6588#comment-285347 <p>"What confuses me most of all if when I see a woman wearing a hijab, but also clothing reveals either her arms of legs"</p> <p>yea. I've wanked off to such people before.</p> “What confuses me most of all if when I see a woman wearing a hijab, but also clothing reveals either her arms of legs”

yea. I’ve wanked off to such people before.

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By: un-hijabi http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2011/06/29/she_got_the_loo/comment-page-2/#comment-285338 un-hijabi Tue, 05 Jul 2011 17:29:29 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=6588#comment-285338 <p>I don't know...I've met many hijabis who were completely covered, not wearing tight clothes, totally modest, but they looked good. Their outfits were sophisticated and classy. I guess this is just my opinion. But I don't think a woman has reveal ANY part of her body to dress well and look nice. A woman can wear a niqab, and have killer eyes and look good...</p> <p>And I agree. I don't get the tight jeans, short sleeve shirts, layers of make-up, and a hijab...but then again, I'm not one to judge (since aspects of my life are hypocritical as well), nor am I one to tell someone else how to dress.</p> I don’t know…I’ve met many hijabis who were completely covered, not wearing tight clothes, totally modest, but they looked good. Their outfits were sophisticated and classy. I guess this is just my opinion. But I don’t think a woman has reveal ANY part of her body to dress well and look nice. A woman can wear a niqab, and have killer eyes and look good…

And I agree. I don’t get the tight jeans, short sleeve shirts, layers of make-up, and a hijab…but then again, I’m not one to judge (since aspects of my life are hypocritical as well), nor am I one to tell someone else how to dress.

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By: Sahar http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2011/06/29/she_got_the_loo/comment-page-2/#comment-285329 Sahar Tue, 05 Jul 2011 06:16:04 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=6588#comment-285329 <p>Thanks for saying this Alina. You are not out of line. This is a great point!</p> Thanks for saying this Alina. You are not out of line. This is a great point!

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