If anything, it is pretty obvious that the girl never intended to offend anyone. She never said anything bad about anyone on the train. She just said good things about herself. Now that is not bad per se. The point, however, is to win arguments. There are some books in psychology that can help with you that.

Because if so, I don’t see how anyone can seriously claim she conducted herself well! It’s hard to tell what the specifics of the situation are, but it appears the conductor remained professional and was simply doing her job, whereas the passenger was loud, irate, and hysterical. Personally I take the train to and from work every day, and am tired of rude passengers screaming and acting disrespectful. I felt embarrassed watching this woman shriek about how “educated” she was; clearly all those years of schooling haven’t taught her common courtesy or how to remain dignified in public. I don’t see what race has to do with this either, unless you’re suggesting the conductor should let her act hysterical and profane on the train because they’re both minority women…?!

Is the “very well educated person” on this train desi?

Yes, but she was just trying to defend herself against the implication that she was stupid/ignorant/thoughtless, the natural association that people think of when someone uses the f*** word. Poor gal. She can’t use her identity to defend herself – which she could have if she could have if she belonged to certain ethnic groups.

Is the “very well educated person” on this train desi?

http://youtu.be/Huw3RvaACvI