Comments on: Mummy, Daddy I Want the ‘Love Marriage’ http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2010/03/03/mummy_daddy_i_w/ All that flavorful brownness in one savory packet Sat, 30 Nov 2013 11:11:28 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Miranda http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2010/03/03/mummy_daddy_i_w/comment-page-1/#comment-287070 Miranda Thu, 27 Oct 2011 13:00:37 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=6116#comment-287070 <p>ps. I found this page while searching for the lyrics to this song. I wish someone would put them up, including some of the Tamil words that not everyone can understand! Thanks!</p> ps. I found this page while searching for the lyrics to this song. I wish someone would put them up, including some of the Tamil words that not everyone can understand! Thanks!

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By: Miranda http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2010/03/03/mummy_daddy_i_w/comment-page-1/#comment-287069 Miranda Thu, 27 Oct 2011 12:58:59 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=6116#comment-287069 <p>Haters gonna hate! Wilbur rocks. His videos are funny, informative, refreshing and sweet. I always found 'Borat' obnoxious and a bit of a bully, and what I love about Wilbur is he's polite, inoffensive and doesn't rely on antagonizing or insulting others for a laugh. All the best to Wilbur, he's a rising Simple Superstar. Oh and do check out his First Class Bhangra! Can't get enough of it!</p> Haters gonna hate! Wilbur rocks. His videos are funny, informative, refreshing and sweet. I always found ‘Borat’ obnoxious and a bit of a bully, and what I love about Wilbur is he’s polite, inoffensive and doesn’t rely on antagonizing or insulting others for a laugh. All the best to Wilbur, he’s a rising Simple Superstar. Oh and do check out his First Class Bhangra! Can’t get enough of it!

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By: Rena http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2010/03/03/mummy_daddy_i_w/comment-page-1/#comment-270263 Rena Sun, 28 Mar 2010 21:37:52 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=6116#comment-270263 <p>lol funny song! I definitely want to download this! Reminded me a funny article I read the other day about Indian marriages (http://nazaronline.net/arts/2010/03/alliance/)</p> lol funny song! I definitely want to download this! Reminded me a funny article I read the other day about Indian marriages (http://nazaronline.net/arts/2010/03/alliance/)

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By: BarrelBottom http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2010/03/03/mummy_daddy_i_w/comment-page-1/#comment-269599 BarrelBottom Wed, 10 Mar 2010 18:32:26 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=6116#comment-269599 <p>Sorry, you don't make much sense.</p> Sorry, you don’t make much sense.

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By: Malathi http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2010/03/03/mummy_daddy_i_w/comment-page-1/#comment-269582 Malathi Wed, 10 Mar 2010 03:24:06 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=6116#comment-269582 <p>Right. And how dare he, a mere brown person, think and step outside the Borat barrel, er, box! Doesn't he know he shouldn't combine wit and music precisely because it is a commonly employed entertainment style in his native Tamil Nadu and it is best kept hidden there? Has he not read the desi manual rule # 4 'Thou shall not subvert the world order'? Ay-yai-yo! What is to become of us?</p> Right. And how dare he, a mere brown person, think and step outside the Borat barrel, er, box! Doesn’t he know he shouldn’t combine wit and music precisely because it is a commonly employed entertainment style in his native Tamil Nadu and it is best kept hidden there? Has he not read the desi manual rule # 4 ‘Thou shall not subvert the world order’? Ay-yai-yo! What is to become of us?

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By: BarrelBottom http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2010/03/03/mummy_daddy_i_w/comment-page-1/#comment-269485 BarrelBottom Tue, 09 Mar 2010 02:31:34 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=6116#comment-269485 <p>Not sure what that means. He is having fun, so I should love him? Or tolerate him?</p> <p>Sly as in, not owning up to the fact that he is Wilbur, and creating a whole fake persona. I know Borat did it, but he doesn't (try to) sing on the side.</p> Not sure what that means. He is having fun, so I should love him? Or tolerate him?

Sly as in, not owning up to the fact that he is Wilbur, and creating a whole fake persona. I know Borat did it, but he doesn’t (try to) sing on the side.

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By: Malathi http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2010/03/03/mummy_daddy_i_w/comment-page-1/#comment-269477 Malathi Tue, 09 Mar 2010 01:28:41 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=6116#comment-269477 <p>Sly? Where did that come from? The guy gives live performances and, from what I gather, he has been doing this for a few years now. His style of entertainment includes not just music but a musical-comedy act --that's his shtick. (The CBC loved that they could only get tantalizing hints to the identity of Wilbur Sargunaraj). You may not like his act and the hoopla surrounding this act but here is how you can save yourself from collecting some plaque in your arteries: don't let the fact that he is enjoying his gig (that has lasted more than 15 mins, I must note) stress you out.</p> <p>It must be hard to see someone take a subculture (language, accent) that has been looked down upon for a long while, embrace it, play with it, present it in a loveable way and make a name for himself, all while seemingly having some fun himself.</p> Sly? Where did that come from? The guy gives live performances and, from what I gather, he has been doing this for a few years now. His style of entertainment includes not just music but a musical-comedy act –that’s his shtick. (The CBC loved that they could only get tantalizing hints to the identity of Wilbur Sargunaraj). You may not like his act and the hoopla surrounding this act but here is how you can save yourself from collecting some plaque in your arteries: don’t let the fact that he is enjoying his gig (that has lasted more than 15 mins, I must note) stress you out.

It must be hard to see someone take a subculture (language, accent) that has been looked down upon for a long while, embrace it, play with it, present it in a loveable way and make a name for himself, all while seemingly having some fun himself.

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By: BarrelBottom http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2010/03/03/mummy_daddy_i_w/comment-page-1/#comment-269409 BarrelBottom Mon, 08 Mar 2010 02:30:58 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=6116#comment-269409 <blockquote> <p>In my books, you will never be a loser for having the guts to try something different.</p> </blockquote> <p>Agree, so I will retract my "loser" comment, that was a bit too strong.</p> <p>However, I will qualify that: <strong>just</strong> trying something different, and then putting it out there without credits to see if it flies, and (potentially) taking credit if it does, doesn't show a lot of guts. So in my book, not only does he need a new career, he needs a lot more lower-body fortitude.</p> <p>As for the niche, it depends on whether what he has found is a barber-like niche. Maybe what he has found is a bum-like niche, in which case, your teacher's exhortation would map as: 'Even if you become a bum, be the best bum in town.' Not sure what that would mean, maybe making observations that get you into overheardinnewyork.com? Or SM, in this case.</p> <p>Sure, live and let live. As long as the niche-builder stays in his space and I stay in mine, and there are no overlaps. Unfortunately public spaces overlap, and if you are building your niche in the public space, you should be ready to get bounced around a little. (Being sly about it doesn't help much, as you can see. Nor does it get respect.) Whatever he is getting comes with his public niche -- "let live" is not the same as "let go". If he is not ready to face people's views, he should have kept his singing to the bathroom.</p>

In my books, you will never be a loser for having the guts to try something different.

Agree, so I will retract my “loser” comment, that was a bit too strong.

However, I will qualify that: just trying something different, and then putting it out there without credits to see if it flies, and (potentially) taking credit if it does, doesn’t show a lot of guts. So in my book, not only does he need a new career, he needs a lot more lower-body fortitude.

As for the niche, it depends on whether what he has found is a barber-like niche. Maybe what he has found is a bum-like niche, in which case, your teacher’s exhortation would map as: ‘Even if you become a bum, be the best bum in town.’ Not sure what that would mean, maybe making observations that get you into overheardinnewyork.com? Or SM, in this case.

Sure, live and let live. As long as the niche-builder stays in his space and I stay in mine, and there are no overlaps. Unfortunately public spaces overlap, and if you are building your niche in the public space, you should be ready to get bounced around a little. (Being sly about it doesn’t help much, as you can see. Nor does it get respect.) Whatever he is getting comes with his public niche — “let live” is not the same as “let go”. If he is not ready to face people’s views, he should have kept his singing to the bathroom.

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By: Malathi http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2010/03/03/mummy_daddy_i_w/comment-page-1/#comment-269403 Malathi Mon, 08 Mar 2010 00:47:55 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=6116#comment-269403 <blockquote>But if your background is the **only thing** thing you can capitalize on, and if this realization dawns after trying to capitalize on non-background things, then you are a loser. </blockquote> <p>But if your background is the <strong>only thing</strong> thing you can capitalize on, and if this realization dawns after trying to capitalize on non-background things AND yet, you do a poor job at capitalizing on your background, then you need a new career. (In my books, you will never be a loser for having the guts to try something different.)</p> <p>But if your background is the <strong>only thing</strong> thing you can capitalize on, and if this realization dawns after trying to capitalize on non-background things, AND you do it well, then hats off to you that you have figured out your niche in life. You've understood my old teacher's advice, 'Even if you become a barber, be the best barber in town.' May you have all the time and opportunity in this world to perfect your art. Don't pay attention to your detractors and especially don't pay attention to those detractors who resent that you have found your niche.</p> <p>And I stay away from arguements over 'good, art; bad art' dichotomy. That arguement is as old as the class/caste system and only becomes more subjective with each additional social classification. Live and let live.</p> But if your background is the **only thing** thing you can capitalize on, and if this realization dawns after trying to capitalize on non-background things, then you are a loser.

But if your background is the only thing thing you can capitalize on, and if this realization dawns after trying to capitalize on non-background things AND yet, you do a poor job at capitalizing on your background, then you need a new career. (In my books, you will never be a loser for having the guts to try something different.)

But if your background is the only thing thing you can capitalize on, and if this realization dawns after trying to capitalize on non-background things, AND you do it well, then hats off to you that you have figured out your niche in life. You’ve understood my old teacher’s advice, ‘Even if you become a barber, be the best barber in town.’ May you have all the time and opportunity in this world to perfect your art. Don’t pay attention to your detractors and especially don’t pay attention to those detractors who resent that you have found your niche.

And I stay away from arguements over ‘good, art; bad art’ dichotomy. That arguement is as old as the class/caste system and only becomes more subjective with each additional social classification. Live and let live.

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By: Mr. X http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2010/03/03/mummy_daddy_i_w/comment-page-1/#comment-269358 Mr. X Sun, 07 Mar 2010 17:15:11 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=6116#comment-269358 <blockquote>Is the assumption being made that good comedy cannot and should not include any references to one's own background? White-washing all humor, are we?</blockquote> <p>The emphasis should be on good comedy, not the background. This is yet another unfunny unoriginal take on a desi situation.</p> Is the assumption being made that good comedy cannot and should not include any references to one’s own background? White-washing all humor, are we?

The emphasis should be on good comedy, not the background. This is yet another unfunny unoriginal take on a desi situation.

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