Comments on: When Every Happy Plot Doesn’t End with a Marriage Knot: Love Marriage http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2008/04/23/love_marriage/ All that flavorful brownness in one savory packet Sat, 30 Nov 2013 11:11:28 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: V.V. Ganeshananthan http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2008/04/23/love_marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-202468 V.V. Ganeshananthan Tue, 06 May 2008 20:25:14 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=5129#comment-202468 <p>At my request, Manish kindly agreed to have the comment edited to remove a spoiler. The deleted section was replaced by "(And a similar repetition later in the novel.)"</p> At my request, Manish kindly agreed to have the comment edited to remove a spoiler. The deleted section was replaced by “(And a similar repetition later in the novel.)”

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By: review question http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2008/04/23/love_marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-202452 review question Tue, 06 May 2008 18:07:50 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=5129#comment-202452 <p><i>17 · <b><a href="http://ultrabrown.com" rel="nofollow">Manish</a></b> <a href="http://www.sepiamutiny.com/sepia/archives/005129.html#comment201089">said</a></i></p> <blockquote>Stay tuned, grasshopper, the update isn't done yet.</blockquote> <p>whatever happened to manish's promised riposte and clarifications after rereading the book, and what exactly about his comment was "edited by admin"?</p> 17 · Manish said

Stay tuned, grasshopper, the update isn’t done yet.

whatever happened to manish’s promised riposte and clarifications after rereading the book, and what exactly about his comment was “edited by admin”?

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By: ptr_vivek http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2008/04/23/love_marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-201486 ptr_vivek Sun, 27 Apr 2008 23:22:26 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=5129#comment-201486 <p><i>41 · <b>Nayagan</b> <a href="http://www.sepiamutiny.com/sepia/archives/005129.html#comment201456">said</a></i></p> <blockquote>How about a 'read the book' rule?</blockquote> <p>Hear hear.</p> 41 · Nayagan said

How about a ‘read the book’ rule?

Hear hear.

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By: Cover Pic http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2008/04/23/love_marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-201472 Cover Pic Sun, 27 Apr 2008 20:28:12 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=5129#comment-201472 <p>Have to agree with byteword. The cover pic is a North Indian woman in a North Indian temple (in the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dilwara_Temples">Dilwara style </a> of temple architecture). Sure we shouldn't judge a book by it's cover, but I would be hard pressed to relate that pic to a Tamil woman in a temple in Tamil Nadu or Ilankai for that matter, and hence say with a cursory glance on the book shelf that it was a story set with Sri Lanka as a backdrop. Perhaps it was done as a marketing tool to draw a more pan-Indian audience or what was considered Indian in a tourist brochure kind of way.</p> Have to agree with byteword. The cover pic is a North Indian woman in a North Indian temple (in the Dilwara style of temple architecture). Sure we shouldn’t judge a book by it’s cover, but I would be hard pressed to relate that pic to a Tamil woman in a temple in Tamil Nadu or Ilankai for that matter, and hence say with a cursory glance on the book shelf that it was a story set with Sri Lanka as a backdrop. Perhaps it was done as a marketing tool to draw a more pan-Indian audience or what was considered Indian in a tourist brochure kind of way.

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By: Nayagan http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2008/04/23/love_marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-201456 Nayagan Sun, 27 Apr 2008 14:46:12 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=5129#comment-201456 <p><i>36 · <b>Sepia Intern</b> <a href="http://www.sepiamutiny.com/sepia/archives/005129.html#comment201373">said</a></i></p> <blockquote>If this thread degenerates into a Singhala-Tamil piss-fest, comments will be closed, so please consider your words carefully and maintain a civil tone - this applies to everyone.</blockquote> <p>How about a 'read the book' rule? that's what I'm heading out to do.</p> 36 · Sepia Intern said

If this thread degenerates into a Singhala-Tamil piss-fest, comments will be closed, so please consider your words carefully and maintain a civil tone – this applies to everyone.

How about a ‘read the book’ rule? that’s what I’m heading out to do.

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By: Laura http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2008/04/23/love_marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-201455 Laura Sun, 27 Apr 2008 14:34:12 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=5129#comment-201455 <blockquote>See, I don't have sympathy for those types either...they actively look down on local languages (in this case Sinhala) and traditions (which are often part of their own cultural heritage)...while always aspiring for some European fantasyland (or trying to create that in India/Sri Lanka, etc).</blockquote> <p>More like trying to escape a fratricidal civil war and having an image of the country ther are migrating to. Nothing to do with looking down on their own languages and traditions. And having a fairytale image of the land they are going to is no worse than having a fairytale image of the land you left behind.</p> See, I don’t have sympathy for those types either…they actively look down on local languages (in this case Sinhala) and traditions (which are often part of their own cultural heritage)…while always aspiring for some European fantasyland (or trying to create that in India/Sri Lanka, etc).

More like trying to escape a fratricidal civil war and having an image of the country ther are migrating to. Nothing to do with looking down on their own languages and traditions. And having a fairytale image of the land they are going to is no worse than having a fairytale image of the land you left behind.

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By: Amitabh http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2008/04/23/love_marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-201433 Amitabh Sun, 27 Apr 2008 03:33:20 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=5129#comment-201433 <blockquote>the rise of a Sinhalese government that imposes draconian language laws. Three sons head for Britain, their idealised land of refined literary culture.</blockquote> <p>See, I don't have sympathy for those types either...they actively look down on local languages (in this case Sinhala) and traditions (which are often part of their own cultural heritage)...while always aspiring for some European fantasyland (or trying to create that in India/Sri Lanka, etc).</p> the rise of a Sinhalese government that imposes draconian language laws. Three sons head for Britain, their idealised land of refined literary culture.

See, I don’t have sympathy for those types either…they actively look down on local languages (in this case Sinhala) and traditions (which are often part of their own cultural heritage)…while always aspiring for some European fantasyland (or trying to create that in India/Sri Lanka, etc).

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By: Laura http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2008/04/23/love_marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-201430 Laura Sun, 27 Apr 2008 03:10:05 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=5129#comment-201430 <p>There seems to be either a trend for multi-generational Sri Lankan diaspora epics taking in the civil war in the world of publishing these days.</p> <p>Anyone heard of this writer called Roma Tearne?</p> <blockquote>In Bone China, she explores three generations of the De Silva family, who see the decline of their tea plantation in the political limbo between independence after 1948 and the rise of a Sinhalese government that imposes draconian language laws. Three sons head for Britain, their idealised land of refined literary culture.</blockquote> <p>[ <a href="http://www.independent.co.uk/arts-entertainment/books/features/roma-tearne-the-enemy-within-810743.html">link</a> ]</p> <p>I wonder if it is coincidence, fashion, or a genuine coming to the surface of stories from the Sri Lankan diaspora about this experience after the nessecary perspective of time and distance has passed.</p> There seems to be either a trend for multi-generational Sri Lankan diaspora epics taking in the civil war in the world of publishing these days.

Anyone heard of this writer called Roma Tearne?

In Bone China, she explores three generations of the De Silva family, who see the decline of their tea plantation in the political limbo between independence after 1948 and the rise of a Sinhalese government that imposes draconian language laws. Three sons head for Britain, their idealised land of refined literary culture.

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I wonder if it is coincidence, fashion, or a genuine coming to the surface of stories from the Sri Lankan diaspora about this experience after the nessecary perspective of time and distance has passed.

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By: Amitabh http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2008/04/23/love_marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-201418 Amitabh Sun, 27 Apr 2008 01:34:28 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=5129#comment-201418 <blockquote>in my opinion, if anyone wanted to 'destroy' the Sri Lankan Tamils, there would be no agent better than the LTTE; they are destroying the community from within and have done it quite successfully, all the while claiming to fight for "freedom."</blockquote> <p><b>The above quote (which I agree with) does not invalidate the following (which I also agree with):</b></p> <blockquote>it was ultimately the responsibility of the Sinhala leadership for engaging in what Neil DeVotta characterizes as a process of "ethnic outbidding" by playing to the insecurities of the Sinhala masses and, in the process, depriving Tamils of their rights in the Sri Lankan state. I think it is of paramount importance to understand the emergence of a hardened and ruthless LTTE in the context of decades of Sinhala oppression, marked by several significant historic events such as the overnight passing of the Sinhala Only Act, state-sponsored colonization schemes of traditionally Tamil areas, discriminatory admission policies against Tamils, the burning of historic landmarks such as the Jaffna Library, state-sponsored pogroms such as Black July in '83. </blockquote> in my opinion, if anyone wanted to ‘destroy’ the Sri Lankan Tamils, there would be no agent better than the LTTE; they are destroying the community from within and have done it quite successfully, all the while claiming to fight for “freedom.”

The above quote (which I agree with) does not invalidate the following (which I also agree with):

it was ultimately the responsibility of the Sinhala leadership for engaging in what Neil DeVotta characterizes as a process of “ethnic outbidding” by playing to the insecurities of the Sinhala masses and, in the process, depriving Tamils of their rights in the Sri Lankan state. I think it is of paramount importance to understand the emergence of a hardened and ruthless LTTE in the context of decades of Sinhala oppression, marked by several significant historic events such as the overnight passing of the Sinhala Only Act, state-sponsored colonization schemes of traditionally Tamil areas, discriminatory admission policies against Tamils, the burning of historic landmarks such as the Jaffna Library, state-sponsored pogroms such as Black July in ’83.
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By: Sepia Intern http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2008/04/23/love_marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-201373 Sepia Intern Sat, 26 Apr 2008 08:00:00 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=5129#comment-201373 <p>Okay, this is hair-covering non-issue has gone on long enough. Consider the point moot and now dead. Next comment about it will be deleted.</p> <p><b>Kushil Jayasuriya</b>, you are entitled to your view, but supporting links are always a good idea. The comment is also excessively long. Please consider yourself warned.</p> <p>If this thread degenerates into a Singhala-Tamil piss-fest, comments will be closed, so please consider your words carefully and maintain a civil tone - this applies to everyone.</p> Okay, this is hair-covering non-issue has gone on long enough. Consider the point moot and now dead. Next comment about it will be deleted.

Kushil Jayasuriya, you are entitled to your view, but supporting links are always a good idea. The comment is also excessively long. Please consider yourself warned.

If this thread degenerates into a Singhala-Tamil piss-fest, comments will be closed, so please consider your words carefully and maintain a civil tone – this applies to everyone.

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