Comments on: That’s your cousin? http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2008/02/18/thats_your_cous/ All that flavorful brownness in one savory packet Sat, 30 Nov 2013 11:11:28 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: digitalcaptive http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2008/02/18/thats_your_cous/comment-page-1/#comment-194377 digitalcaptive Wed, 20 Feb 2008 19:03:10 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=5037#comment-194377 <p><i>40 · <b>bengali disgrace</b> <a href="http://www.sepiamutiny.com/sepia/archives/005037.html#comment194323">said</a></i></p> <blockquote>What makes some cultures agree to cousin marriages easily and others not so easily? Is it more than just knowledge of potential birth defects? </blockquote> <p>It's because of tradition, largely based in the desire to maintain unity and to keep wealth/land within the clan.</p> <p>Remember that marriages in these traditional cultures are seen as a union of the couples' families, rather than the couple themselves. Individualism is a foreign concept, so even arranged marriages between non-relatives are focused around making/maintaining familial connections.</p> <p>I don't think it's an issue of a " shortage of prospective grooms/brides " for most cultures that continue the practice of cousin marriage.</p> <p>"My seeds grow with his seeds marry his seeds, That's how we keep wu-tang money all up in the family" - ghostface killer from glaciers of ice.</p> 40 · bengali disgrace said

What makes some cultures agree to cousin marriages easily and others not so easily? Is it more than just knowledge of potential birth defects?

It’s because of tradition, largely based in the desire to maintain unity and to keep wealth/land within the clan.

Remember that marriages in these traditional cultures are seen as a union of the couples’ families, rather than the couple themselves. Individualism is a foreign concept, so even arranged marriages between non-relatives are focused around making/maintaining familial connections.

I don’t think it’s an issue of a ” shortage of prospective grooms/brides ” for most cultures that continue the practice of cousin marriage.

“My seeds grow with his seeds marry his seeds, That’s how we keep wu-tang money all up in the family” – ghostface killer from glaciers of ice.

]]>
By: portmanteau http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2008/02/18/thats_your_cous/comment-page-1/#comment-194354 portmanteau Wed, 20 Feb 2008 16:37:18 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=5037#comment-194354 <p><i>41 · <b><a href="mailto:suki1328@yahoo.com" rel="nofollow">Suki Dillon</a></b> <a href="http://www.sepiamutiny.com/sepia/archives/005037.html#comment194333">said</a></i></p> <blockquote>I will <b>keep it comming.</b></blockquote> <p>I guess that's what the kids are calling it these days :) Right, bess? I'm sure the only thing surf-board about you is those abs, and even if that's not the case, I'm sure we can work it out. With the help of our infamous interns, of course.</p> 41 · Suki Dillon said

I will keep it comming.

I guess that’s what the kids are calling it these days :) Right, bess? I’m sure the only thing surf-board about you is those abs, and even if that’s not the case, I’m sure we can work it out. With the help of our infamous interns, of course.

]]>
By: bess http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2008/02/18/thats_your_cous/comment-page-1/#comment-194346 bess Wed, 20 Feb 2008 15:16:04 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=5037#comment-194346 <p>And does anyone else feel like they've "met Amir" <a href="http://img2.timeinc.net/ew/dynamic/imgs/060918/153138__ponch_l.jpg">already</a>? Yeah...um...he works for the California Highway Patrol, goes by the name of "Ponch".</p> And does anyone else feel like they’ve “met Amir” already? Yeah…um…he works for the California Highway Patrol, goes by the name of “Ponch”.

]]>
By: bess http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2008/02/18/thats_your_cous/comment-page-1/#comment-194345 bess Wed, 20 Feb 2008 15:05:48 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=5037#comment-194345 <blockquote>bess, i love you - please, please don't be a never-nude.</blockquote> <p>Oh, port-sister, I'm never <i>never-nude</i> but I am a total surfboard, so I got nothing to show but my low self esteem. hehe.</p> bess, i love you – please, please don’t be a never-nude.

Oh, port-sister, I’m never never-nude but I am a total surfboard, so I got nothing to show but my low self esteem. hehe.

]]>
By: najeeb http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2008/02/18/thats_your_cous/comment-page-1/#comment-194336 najeeb Wed, 20 Feb 2008 09:22:06 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=5037#comment-194336 <blockquote>What makes some cultures agree to cousin marriages easily and others not so easily?</blockquote> <p>I don't have any data on this, but my hunch is that it may be more prevalent in minority cultures. The shortage of prospective grooms/brides together with the desire to continue the family line and contain wealth were probably propelling this trend.</p> What makes some cultures agree to cousin marriages easily and others not so easily?

I don’t have any data on this, but my hunch is that it may be more prevalent in minority cultures. The shortage of prospective grooms/brides together with the desire to continue the family line and contain wealth were probably propelling this trend.

]]>
By: Suki Dillon http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2008/02/18/thats_your_cous/comment-page-1/#comment-194333 Suki Dillon Wed, 20 Feb 2008 08:49:42 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=5037#comment-194333 <p><i>Suki/Clueless, I love your blunt and wry commentary--keep it coming!!</i></p> <p>Thanks, and I will keep it comming.</p> Suki/Clueless, I love your blunt and wry commentary–keep it coming!!

Thanks, and I will keep it comming.

]]>
By: bengali disgrace http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2008/02/18/thats_your_cous/comment-page-1/#comment-194323 bengali disgrace Wed, 20 Feb 2008 05:00:54 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=5037#comment-194323 <p>What makes some cultures agree to cousin marriages easily and others not so easily? Is it more than just knowledge of potential birth defects?</p> What makes some cultures agree to cousin marriages easily and others not so easily? Is it more than just knowledge of potential birth defects?

]]>
By: portmanteau http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2008/02/18/thats_your_cous/comment-page-1/#comment-194316 portmanteau Wed, 20 Feb 2008 03:58:51 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=5037#comment-194316 <p><i>28 · <b>bess</b> <a href="http://www.sepiamutiny.com/sepia/archives/005037.html#comment194251">said</a></i></p> <blockquote>I know a couple who named their daughter "Maeby".</blockquote> <p>bess, i love you - please, please don't be a <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tobias_F%C3%BCnke">never-nude</a>.</p> <p>-<a href="http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Girls+With+Low+Self+Esteem">girl with</a> <a href="http://the-op.com/object/Girls%2BWith%2BLow%2BSelf-Esteem">low self-esteem</a></p> 28 · bess said

I know a couple who named their daughter “Maeby”.

bess, i love you – please, please don’t be a never-nude.

-girl with low self-esteem

]]>
By: SSK http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2008/02/18/thats_your_cous/comment-page-1/#comment-194289 SSK Wed, 20 Feb 2008 01:16:22 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=5037#comment-194289 <p>Hmm, did anyone else see Leon from Curb Your Enthusiasm, Season 5, in that trailer?</p> Hmm, did anyone else see Leon from Curb Your Enthusiasm, Season 5, in that trailer?

]]>
By: Vanya http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2008/02/18/thats_your_cous/comment-page-1/#comment-194287 Vanya Wed, 20 Feb 2008 00:57:25 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=5037#comment-194287 <p>It's <a href="http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/7233590.stm">not</a> <i>all</i> bad news for kissing (distant) cousins.</p> It’s not all bad news for kissing (distant) cousins.

]]>