Attempting to fit logic to the recondite, endlessly cthonic realm of sexuality is futile. There is nothing logical about the terrain of sexuality. Absolutely nothing.

I made the comment about being approached while in the line for a bathroom, and only suggested that because its such a short time window, there might be something particular about Satya that says to a guy “hey come to talk to me”

As it’s been mentioned before, a woman simply being by herself sends the “message” that she’s fair game. And as I mentioned before, I’m quite shy and positively lacking in feminine wiles, so I don’t think that I’m responsible for men hitting on me despite the fact that I’m with someone else.

When a woman does dress provocatively, they are indeed sending out the message, “I am sexy”, not “I need sex” but “I am someone who it’s beneficial to have sex with” does this authorize gropes and grinds and lift up by thighs? NO, again I’ll say it: NO IT DOES NOT. However, you cannot come back with the ‘deer in the headlights’ look with “what what?” when you see and hear signs that a guy is ‘thinking’ about it.? When that is the clear goal. Get me?

Perhaps, but this begs the question: why is it that so many women tend to be approached NOT when they’re dressed provocatively but when they’re donning their least sexy duds, walking the dog, etc.? And I’m curious–you don’t feel that physical assault is ever warranted, but what about verbal abuse or inappropriate comments? Do you feel that just kind of comes with the territory of the nightclub?

No, thats exactly what I’m not saying in fact. I was just pointing out a logical flaw in continuing to do certain actions that were primarily for the attraction of men, after that goal has been satisfied.

And for the record, it’s one thing to be politely complimented, but hoots and grabs on the street? NOT FUN. NOT EGO-FEEDING. Most women are embarrassed, annoyed, sometimes even threatened by it.

Please point out where I said hoots and grabs were acceptable? Or where did I even broach this subject at all? This is what Im talking about when I say misrepresentation.

I made the comment about being approached while in the line for a bathroom, and only suggested that because its such a short time window, there might be something particular about Satya that says to a guy “hey come to talk to me”

Secondly.. I will make a general comment however.. not related to any one persons anecdote here.

When a woman does dress provocatively, they are indeed sending out the message, “I am sexy”, not “I need sex” but “I am someone who it’s beneficial to have sex with” does this authorize gropes and grinds and lift up by thighs? NO, again I’ll say it: NO IT DOES NOT. However, you cannot come back with the ‘deer in the headlights’ look with “what what?” when you see and hear signs that a guy is ‘thinking’ about it.? When that is the clear goal. Get me?

So it’s somewhat confusing to see a married woman, without her husband in a club engaging in this kind of action.. that’s the point I was trying to make.

Following up on my earlier post, I am not sure what your budget is, but there are some really nice affordable places, my building was an old factory converted into apartments and it was reasonable, it was on second and race. I am not sure what the scene now is, it used to be managed by Brandywine. Hopefully you will get to your comfort zone fast. Now back to regular programming