Comments on: Hyderabadis in Blackface? http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2007/08/13/hyderabadis_in/ All that flavorful brownness in one savory packet Sat, 30 Nov 2013 11:11:28 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: R.A. from USA http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2007/08/13/hyderabadis_in/comment-page-12/#comment-267670 R.A. from USA Sat, 30 Jan 2010 04:43:32 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=4649#comment-267670 <p>Whereever the colonials have once ruled, you will find this racial stereotype. In Mexico the films portray the darker pure natives as second class, In USA blacks have a color complex, And India obviously has it. I am an African American of mixed heritage with two children who are half Mexican. My wife is beautiful, but wow, the dark and beautiful women of southern India are the most elegant looking in the world. Bollywood needs to wake up to the dark chocolate because its hot!!!!!!!!</p> <p>by the way, darker skin ages more gracefully</p> Whereever the colonials have once ruled, you will find this racial stereotype. In Mexico the films portray the darker pure natives as second class, In USA blacks have a color complex, And India obviously has it. I am an African American of mixed heritage with two children who are half Mexican. My wife is beautiful, but wow, the dark and beautiful women of southern India are the most elegant looking in the world. Bollywood needs to wake up to the dark chocolate because its hot!!!!!!!!

by the way, darker skin ages more gracefully

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By: Sandeep http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2007/08/13/hyderabadis_in/comment-page-12/#comment-159777 Sandeep Fri, 17 Aug 2007 18:19:06 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=4649#comment-159777 <p>This seems like an obvious case of "They came for the people in another town, and I did nothing. They came for my neighbors and I did nothing. They came for my friends and I did nothing. Then they came for me." Surprise, surprise. If South Asians have done blackface <a href="http://www.sepiamutiny.com/sepia/archives/004366.html">before</a>, then it should not be surprising when they show the same ignorance towards their own.</p> This seems like an obvious case of “They came for the people in another town, and I did nothing. They came for my neighbors and I did nothing. They came for my friends and I did nothing. Then they came for me.” Surprise, surprise. If South Asians have done blackface before, then it should not be surprising when they show the same ignorance towards their own.

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By: zuni http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2007/08/13/hyderabadis_in/comment-page-12/#comment-159377 zuni Thu, 16 Aug 2007 18:41:13 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=4649#comment-159377 <p>ANNA, I think our Dads would be very good friends if they meet each other, because my dad loves a lot of things Mallu, more so after I got married to my Mallu dude. In fact he emails us interesting mallu stuff whenever he finds. But I have found so many things common among the two culture, that I am pretty comfortable right now.</p> <p>In general, I have seen that Bengalis think South Indians are more of intellectual (with less brashness etc), than North Indians; maybe prejudiced by bollywood movies ? But from my dating experience, I have to say that South Indian guys tend to be more respectful towards woman than northie guys, and yeah, there is loooot less eve teasing in the South.</p> ANNA, I think our Dads would be very good friends if they meet each other, because my dad loves a lot of things Mallu, more so after I got married to my Mallu dude. In fact he emails us interesting mallu stuff whenever he finds. But I have found so many things common among the two culture, that I am pretty comfortable right now.

In general, I have seen that Bengalis think South Indians are more of intellectual (with less brashness etc), than North Indians; maybe prejudiced by bollywood movies ? But from my dating experience, I have to say that South Indian guys tend to be more respectful towards woman than northie guys, and yeah, there is loooot less eve teasing in the South.

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By: risible http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2007/08/13/hyderabadis_in/comment-page-12/#comment-159357 risible Thu, 16 Aug 2007 17:41:13 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=4649#comment-159357 <p><i> I have so much to say about it, I disagreed with virtually everything he said.</i></p> <p>No worries, Amitabh. Come back and give it to me. As I've said, my family on my father's side is Hindu Punjabi -- refugees from Lahore. The vociferous regional chauvinisms in the diaspora have driven me to a sort of soft nationalism. I should say that I am firstly an American, but emotional, religious, and economic ties to India (in the form of property, e.g.) make me consider myself a stakeholder in the Indian project, so you should understand that that, and not any personal animus to Sikhs, Dravidian separatists, Kashmiris, Nagas, etc., drives my perspective.</p> I have so much to say about it, I disagreed with virtually everything he said.

No worries, Amitabh. Come back and give it to me. As I’ve said, my family on my father’s side is Hindu Punjabi — refugees from Lahore. The vociferous regional chauvinisms in the diaspora have driven me to a sort of soft nationalism. I should say that I am firstly an American, but emotional, religious, and economic ties to India (in the form of property, e.g.) make me consider myself a stakeholder in the Indian project, so you should understand that that, and not any personal animus to Sikhs, Dravidian separatists, Kashmiris, Nagas, etc., drives my perspective.

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By: zuni http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2007/08/13/hyderabadis_in/comment-page-12/#comment-159345 zuni Thu, 16 Aug 2007 17:09:19 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=4649#comment-159345 <p>Curry and Rice girl, are you there ? Your experience seems traumatic and I am now worried about what will happen when I have a child. You see, my husband and I are replicas of your parents because I am Bengali and he is Mallu Christian. Maybe times have changed, because he is adored at my parents house and my in-laws have been very sweet. I love Mallu people and culture a lot...and yes I love the food too. But there are some issues that are worrying me. Could you please email me ?</p> Curry and Rice girl, are you there ? Your experience seems traumatic and I am now worried about what will happen when I have a child. You see, my husband and I are replicas of your parents because I am Bengali and he is Mallu Christian. Maybe times have changed, because he is adored at my parents house and my in-laws have been very sweet. I love Mallu people and culture a lot…and yes I love the food too. But there are some issues that are worrying me. Could you please email me ?

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By: Amitabh http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2007/08/13/hyderabadis_in/comment-page-12/#comment-159313 Amitabh Thu, 16 Aug 2007 15:22:13 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=4649#comment-159313 <p>Camille, EXACTLY. This is the post of Risible's that I wanted to respond to at some length as well. I have so much to say about it, I disagreed with virtually everything he said. I guess my main point would have been that language and cultural heritage is not something that you sacrifice for politics and expediency. And that in much of the politics he refers to, the Punjabi Hindu leadership and Press was far from innocent (and neither was the Arya Samaj, that other major (and pernicious) influence on the cultural and political direction of the Punjabi Hindu community in the 20th century). Actually I wanted to write a lot more, tackling each point of his with a rebuttal, but I simply don't have time right now. Risible's stance strikes me as being analagous to a Sinhalese person who blames the Tamils for the violence in Sri Lanka...while ignoring all the things the Sinhalese did for so long to force the Tamils to that point. In the end, no one remains blameless of course.</p> Camille, EXACTLY. This is the post of Risible’s that I wanted to respond to at some length as well. I have so much to say about it, I disagreed with virtually everything he said. I guess my main point would have been that language and cultural heritage is not something that you sacrifice for politics and expediency. And that in much of the politics he refers to, the Punjabi Hindu leadership and Press was far from innocent (and neither was the Arya Samaj, that other major (and pernicious) influence on the cultural and political direction of the Punjabi Hindu community in the 20th century). Actually I wanted to write a lot more, tackling each point of his with a rebuttal, but I simply don’t have time right now. Risible’s stance strikes me as being analagous to a Sinhalese person who blames the Tamils for the violence in Sri Lanka…while ignoring all the things the Sinhalese did for so long to force the Tamils to that point. In the end, no one remains blameless of course.

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By: dingchak http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2007/08/13/hyderabadis_in/comment-page-12/#comment-159310 dingchak Thu, 16 Aug 2007 15:13:49 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=4649#comment-159310 <p>bytewords:552</p> <blockquote>on the other hand, for example, you had the nation of karnataka. what stops a konkani fellow from saying the same thing as above? if you have a nation for konkanis, what stops a saraswat fellow from saying the same thing? how long are you going to split states?</blockquote> <p>..till we climax to a libertarian wet-dream state of a nation of one. ....'mmmm..do you want to go <i>all </i>the way?' ...'yeah'.... 'ok, but you'll have to apply for a visa'..</p> bytewords:552

on the other hand, for example, you had the nation of karnataka. what stops a konkani fellow from saying the same thing as above? if you have a nation for konkanis, what stops a saraswat fellow from saying the same thing? how long are you going to split states?

..till we climax to a libertarian wet-dream state of a nation of one. ….’mmmm..do you want to go all the way?’ …’yeah’…. ‘ok, but you’ll have to apply for a visa’..

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By: Camille http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2007/08/13/hyderabadis_in/comment-page-12/#comment-159306 Camille Thu, 16 Aug 2007 14:16:49 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=4649#comment-159306 <blockquote>Most Punjabi Hindus are urban dwellers - a very large number live in Delhi, where Hindi was much more widely spoken, so it made eminent sense to choose Hindi over Punjabi. There was also nationalist feeling at play: Lala Lajpat Rai felt that Hindu Punjabis were better off siding with nation over region. Given the secessionist tendencies in the Punjab that later developed, that too seems to have made eminent sense.</blockquote> <p>I totally missed this the first time, but I don't agree at all. Post-Partition, many states were divided and divvied up by language. By promoting the idea that Hindu Punjabis should speak Hindi, this not only resulted in Punjab losing even more territory (on top of what was lost in Partition), but it also drove an artificial wedge between Punjabi Sikhs and Punjabi Hindus. Punjabi Sikhs in Delhi also spoke Hindi -- but their mother tongue was Punjabi. There is nothing wrong with having a regional identity as well as belonging to a national body politic (especially since we've already established the "foriegn-ness" of Hindi to many desis language speakers.</p> <p>I also take exception to the claim that Punjab was somehow intrinsically secessionist. It's not like Sikhs are some freak renegade group who are "Sikhi and Punjabi uber alles!" I really don't want to talk about Punjab's "secessionist tendencies," but it would be foolish to think this was somehow based in identity only (be it Sikh or Punjabi). An argument rooted in resource access and political representation in (local) politics became reframed as a religious conflict. We see this the world over -- struggles over very basic things are reframed in terms of religion, and then it becomes an issue of "fundamentalism" or "extremism" or "terrorism" (all loaded words) instead of a conflict over concerns more common to the group as a whole.</p> Most Punjabi Hindus are urban dwellers – a very large number live in Delhi, where Hindi was much more widely spoken, so it made eminent sense to choose Hindi over Punjabi. There was also nationalist feeling at play: Lala Lajpat Rai felt that Hindu Punjabis were better off siding with nation over region. Given the secessionist tendencies in the Punjab that later developed, that too seems to have made eminent sense.

I totally missed this the first time, but I don’t agree at all. Post-Partition, many states were divided and divvied up by language. By promoting the idea that Hindu Punjabis should speak Hindi, this not only resulted in Punjab losing even more territory (on top of what was lost in Partition), but it also drove an artificial wedge between Punjabi Sikhs and Punjabi Hindus. Punjabi Sikhs in Delhi also spoke Hindi — but their mother tongue was Punjabi. There is nothing wrong with having a regional identity as well as belonging to a national body politic (especially since we’ve already established the “foriegn-ness” of Hindi to many desis language speakers.

I also take exception to the claim that Punjab was somehow intrinsically secessionist. It’s not like Sikhs are some freak renegade group who are “Sikhi and Punjabi uber alles!” I really don’t want to talk about Punjab’s “secessionist tendencies,” but it would be foolish to think this was somehow based in identity only (be it Sikh or Punjabi). An argument rooted in resource access and political representation in (local) politics became reframed as a religious conflict. We see this the world over — struggles over very basic things are reframed in terms of religion, and then it becomes an issue of “fundamentalism” or “extremism” or “terrorism” (all loaded words) instead of a conflict over concerns more common to the group as a whole.

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By: Mukul http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2007/08/13/hyderabadis_in/comment-page-12/#comment-159232 Mukul Thu, 16 Aug 2007 04:45:06 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=4649#comment-159232 <p>To whomever wrote: "I meant successful nation, i.e. First world, something India should aspire to become within the next 50 years. I somehow don't think Indians want their nation to be known as "Mexico of Asia"."</p> <p>(1) India would be lucky to become the "Mexico of Asia". Mexico's per capita GDP is ten times that of India's today and the proportion of people living in absolute poverty in India is 35% compared to 4% in Mexico. Mexico is in the group of countries that have attained a high level of human development according to the UN, with rank #53 compared to India's rank of 126 (latest figures).</p> <p>(2) Before India aspires to become the "Mexico of Asia," perhaps it should first aspire to be the 'Nicaragua of Asia.' With a Human Development Index of 112, Nicaragua is 14 positions higher in terms of Human Development compared to India.</p> <p>(3) No major country has ever gone from 3rd world impoverishment to first world prosperity in 50 years. I think you will find that the road toe development is a long hard slog. A little more sober reflection on the realities of this world and quite a bit less hubris-laden jingoistic chest-thumping would be welcome.</p> <p>(4) Have you ever been to Mexico? I have had the opportunity to travel there and I can tell you that it is a far more developed country (infrastructure-wise, educationally, and socially) than India currently is. To become a country 'like Mexico' is a noble goal for a country 'like India' and I think it will be harder to reach that goal than most people are predicting.</p> <p>http://hdr.undp.org/hdr2006/statistics/indicators/23.html</p> To whomever wrote: “I meant successful nation, i.e. First world, something India should aspire to become within the next 50 years. I somehow don’t think Indians want their nation to be known as “Mexico of Asia”.”

(1) India would be lucky to become the “Mexico of Asia”. Mexico’s per capita GDP is ten times that of India’s today and the proportion of people living in absolute poverty in India is 35% compared to 4% in Mexico. Mexico is in the group of countries that have attained a high level of human development according to the UN, with rank #53 compared to India’s rank of 126 (latest figures).

(2) Before India aspires to become the “Mexico of Asia,” perhaps it should first aspire to be the ‘Nicaragua of Asia.’ With a Human Development Index of 112, Nicaragua is 14 positions higher in terms of Human Development compared to India.

(3) No major country has ever gone from 3rd world impoverishment to first world prosperity in 50 years. I think you will find that the road toe development is a long hard slog. A little more sober reflection on the realities of this world and quite a bit less hubris-laden jingoistic chest-thumping would be welcome.

(4) Have you ever been to Mexico? I have had the opportunity to travel there and I can tell you that it is a far more developed country (infrastructure-wise, educationally, and socially) than India currently is. To become a country ‘like Mexico’ is a noble goal for a country ‘like India’ and I think it will be harder to reach that goal than most people are predicting.

http://hdr.undp.org/hdr2006/statistics/indicators/23.html

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By: bytewords http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2007/08/13/hyderabadis_in/comment-page-12/#comment-159230 bytewords Thu, 16 Aug 2007 04:36:39 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=4649#comment-159230 <blockquote>It's amazing that the south had only one IIT.</blockquote> <p>let me counter this one specifically. b'lore did become the hub of iisc, iti, hal, nal, raman research institute, iim and several premier organizations. at the time of inception, iit's were no more prestigious (and still are not more than iisc) than any other institute. all the above are central govt funded (iisc did start out as tata institute, but was groomed to be the flagship science research location as iisc after independence). other cities have similar examples.</p> <blockquote>The center should not be spending a single rupee to promote Hindi. That is the job of the Hindi states. </blockquote> <p>i agree---but it is a small objection imo as the amount that goes into hindi pracharan is tiny, and mainly a relic of the past. there should be no more increases till money is spent on other languages as well.</p> <blockquote>as long as the states get increased rights and federal taxes are decreased so the states can generate their own revenue. The federal government should generate enough revenue to fund national sectors.</blockquote> <p>we are moving in that direction. the strong central govt suited the socialist india. of late, it is increasingly hard to keep it up, coalition governments are the norm now. coalitions are a way of giving special interests more say than their numbers can, since a party with 12 members in lok sabha can pretty much wield a veto because they are the 12 members who push the coalition past the half way mark. analysts complained in the 90's about this, but the consensus today is that this is here to stay.</p> <blockquote>THe problem was for a lot of India's history, the federal government did not put enough emphasis on the south.</blockquote> <p>it is true that the union government could have done a lot more for the south. but then, it is also true that the govt could have done more for the urban poor, the eastern states, dalits (as opposed to obc's) in the northern plains, kashmiri hindus, and a whole lot of others. they are all mistakes, but i want to point out that the mistakes are not likely to persist. every group will argue for itself, that is life---and it will not change even if states secede. but there is also a will to see that no one gets screwed over by this.</p> It’s amazing that the south had only one IIT.

let me counter this one specifically. b’lore did become the hub of iisc, iti, hal, nal, raman research institute, iim and several premier organizations. at the time of inception, iit’s were no more prestigious (and still are not more than iisc) than any other institute. all the above are central govt funded (iisc did start out as tata institute, but was groomed to be the flagship science research location as iisc after independence). other cities have similar examples.

The center should not be spending a single rupee to promote Hindi. That is the job of the Hindi states.

i agree—but it is a small objection imo as the amount that goes into hindi pracharan is tiny, and mainly a relic of the past. there should be no more increases till money is spent on other languages as well.

as long as the states get increased rights and federal taxes are decreased so the states can generate their own revenue. The federal government should generate enough revenue to fund national sectors.

we are moving in that direction. the strong central govt suited the socialist india. of late, it is increasingly hard to keep it up, coalition governments are the norm now. coalitions are a way of giving special interests more say than their numbers can, since a party with 12 members in lok sabha can pretty much wield a veto because they are the 12 members who push the coalition past the half way mark. analysts complained in the 90′s about this, but the consensus today is that this is here to stay.

THe problem was for a lot of India’s history, the federal government did not put enough emphasis on the south.

it is true that the union government could have done a lot more for the south. but then, it is also true that the govt could have done more for the urban poor, the eastern states, dalits (as opposed to obc’s) in the northern plains, kashmiri hindus, and a whole lot of others. they are all mistakes, but i want to point out that the mistakes are not likely to persist. every group will argue for itself, that is life—and it will not change even if states secede. but there is also a will to see that no one gets screwed over by this.

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