What about sex for sport with black women?

Unfortunately, this is all too common among Hindus as well. It’s an assimilation thing. The “goris” are fine as sexual objects

Are black women fine as sexual objects too?

Same from me!

Also, thanks Tamasha: Dateration=CoffeeFace:)

When I dated someone who happened to be black in college, my parents kind of freaked out. Only a few weeks into the relationship, they had talks with me about inter-racial marriage, racism, and bi-racial kids. When I brought up my parents’ concerns with my boyfriend, he was like WTF, we’ve only been dating a couple of weeks and you’re already talking marriage?!! I guess Indian parents are kind of hyper

That is how desis mostly are, I’m afraid. Even chaste types of dating are frowned upon with most parents I know (in several states from CA to NY). Even in Bangladesh, middle class people usually don’t date nowadays (from what I’ve heard). A lot of people only date when they come here; I was beyond shocked when I saw a young BD FOB couple smooching on a street corner! My uncle’s wife’s family only believes in the strictest form of arranged marriage, where the man and woman don’t talk until the wedding. In their case, my uncle saw her in the mall, and decided that he would marry her. She didn’t know who he was and why he was there, but only had the biodata info. Now, her parents (back in Bangladesh) want her younger sister (22) to marry, but my auntie thinks that she should get a job first and look for a husband (who is settled in US and financially secure). My aunt once said that how her marriage was conducted was TOO fast, and I get the feeling that she would’ve liked to have the chance to see more men (talk to them, I mean). They seem like a pretty happy, compatible couple, though they are not rich- they have 2 terrific kids and treat each other as equal partners in life.

Hilarious!

When I dated someone who happened to be black in college, my parents kind of freaked out. Only a few weeks into the relationship, they had talks with me about inter-racial marriage, racism, and bi-racial kids. When I brought up my parents’ concerns with my boyfriend, he was like WTF, we’ve only been dating a couple of weeks and you’re already talking marriage?!! I guess Indian parents are kind of hyper.

With some desi marriages, you’ve known that all along

But then you’d know for sure they were your cousins!

Taj, just wait, one day parents will be taking cotton swabs to the inside of their children’s mouths to analyze their DNA and will post those findings under “biodata” also. I’m kidding, but unfortunately I wouldn’t be surprised if it DID happen.

Done.