Comments on: Dearest Pecola, I Want to Weep. http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2006/10/02/dearest_pecola/ All that flavorful brownness in one savory packet Sat, 30 Nov 2013 11:11:28 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Ganga Din http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2006/10/02/dearest_pecola/comment-page-5/#comment-156736 Ganga Din Tue, 07 Aug 2007 02:27:13 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=3831#comment-156736 <p>how can you want to be a white oppressor?</p> how can you want to be a white oppressor?

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By: amy http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2006/10/02/dearest_pecola/comment-page-5/#comment-148552 amy Tue, 10 Jul 2007 07:18:56 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=3831#comment-148552 <p>dear all indian women who wish to be white, i can understand how you feel that the white race is more beautiful than you.and i am deeply troubled by your dislikening for your heritage.i am white,and my aunt and cousin are indian through my fathers brother.i think indians are the most gorgeous race in existance.i think indian models are far more beautiful than ANY american model.i am deeply,deeply, attracted to indian women.Not once,have i ever seen an "ugly" indian individual (even men).you are all beautiful and dont let anyone else every tell you otherwise.Take pride in who you are,god made you indian for a reason.you're all beautiful.:]-Amy(NY)</p> dear all indian women who wish to be white, i can understand how you feel that the white race is more beautiful than you.and i am deeply troubled by your dislikening for your heritage.i am white,and my aunt and cousin are indian through my fathers brother.i think indians are the most gorgeous race in existance.i think indian models are far more beautiful than ANY american model.i am deeply,deeply, attracted to indian women.Not once,have i ever seen an “ugly” indian individual (even men).you are all beautiful and dont let anyone else every tell you otherwise.Take pride in who you are,god made you indian for a reason.you’re all beautiful.:]-Amy(NY)

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By: kiran light http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2006/10/02/dearest_pecola/comment-page-5/#comment-93207 kiran light Wed, 11 Oct 2006 23:37:29 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=3831#comment-93207 <p>I too understand the place this comment stems from. I was born in Brooklyn, NY but I now live in the deep south. My parents are from Trinidad, my grandparents are from India. You look at me and I look Indian, you talk to me and I sound like an ABCD. The love of my life had the balls to tell me that I wasn't "Indian enough" whatever that meant. I spent the majority of my life not fully fitting in anywhere. I didn't understand why the "real desi kids" at school didn't want to play with me. I so envied the box each of you fit into. I think I've finally grown up enough that I appreciate the paradox that I am. and people can only make you feel small if you let them. But I have to say I am more wary of "Indian" people than any other ethnicity. No other race has ever been as out and out mean.</p> I too understand the place this comment stems from. I was born in Brooklyn, NY but I now live in the deep south. My parents are from Trinidad, my grandparents are from India. You look at me and I look Indian, you talk to me and I sound like an ABCD. The love of my life had the balls to tell me that I wasn’t “Indian enough” whatever that meant. I spent the majority of my life not fully fitting in anywhere. I didn’t understand why the “real desi kids” at school didn’t want to play with me. I so envied the box each of you fit into. I think I’ve finally grown up enough that I appreciate the paradox that I am. and people can only make you feel small if you let them. But I have to say I am more wary of “Indian” people than any other ethnicity. No other race has ever been as out and out mean.

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By: Sahej http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2006/10/02/dearest_pecola/comment-page-5/#comment-92490 Sahej Mon, 09 Oct 2006 00:19:54 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=3831#comment-92490 <p>By the way I was trying to give you advice I thought you could use, and I apologize if I was presumptious or arrogant about it. I may have made a mistake.</p> By the way I was trying to give you advice I thought you could use, and I apologize if I was presumptious or arrogant about it. I may have made a mistake.

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By: Sahej http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2006/10/02/dearest_pecola/comment-page-5/#comment-92484 Sahej Sun, 08 Oct 2006 23:08:18 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=3831#comment-92484 <p>If you want to pretend you're fighting a revolution in your own head for the next 20 years, be my guest</p> If you want to pretend you’re fighting a revolution in your own head for the next 20 years, be my guest

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By: Sahej http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2006/10/02/dearest_pecola/comment-page-5/#comment-92483 Sahej Sun, 08 Oct 2006 23:06:47 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=3831#comment-92483 <p>Ok man</p> Ok man

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By: HMF http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2006/10/02/dearest_pecola/comment-page-5/#comment-92478 HMF Sun, 08 Oct 2006 21:55:13 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=3831#comment-92478 <blockquote>Aight, point heard but not taken. ;-)</blockquote> <p>Whoa... bogus.</p> Aight, point heard but not taken. ;-)

Whoa… bogus.

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By: Sahej http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2006/10/02/dearest_pecola/comment-page-5/#comment-92302 Sahej Sat, 07 Oct 2006 15:43:22 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=3831#comment-92302 <p>Aight, point heard but not taken. ;-)</p> Aight, point heard but not taken. ;-)

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By: HMF http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2006/10/02/dearest_pecola/comment-page-5/#comment-92301 HMF Sat, 07 Oct 2006 15:41:19 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=3831#comment-92301 <blockquote> HMF brah, I want to give you some advice. This might seem presumptious but take it with a grain of salt. Use outrage, don't let outrage use you. The time will come when you will be tested, and you'll know it, because the wind will get knocked out of you, and you'll go down on one knee. Consider these moments a blessing because then you'll be in it for real. Do not waste your strength on battles that don't need to be fought. Learn from everything around you. You do have a lot to learn still man. That's not a knock on you, but it should actually be a relief. You'll never save anyone no matter how many words you write or what thoughts you think. We're all in this together, every last creature. Some people will help and some will hurt each other, and it might not be who you expect. Discount no one. </blockquote> <p>Sahej, you forgot to add, "Be.... excellent to each other.... party on dude.."</p> HMF brah, I want to give you some advice. This might seem presumptious but take it with a grain of salt. Use outrage, don’t let outrage use you. The time will come when you will be tested, and you’ll know it, because the wind will get knocked out of you, and you’ll go down on one knee. Consider these moments a blessing because then you’ll be in it for real. Do not waste your strength on battles that don’t need to be fought. Learn from everything around you. You do have a lot to learn still man. That’s not a knock on you, but it should actually be a relief. You’ll never save anyone no matter how many words you write or what thoughts you think. We’re all in this together, every last creature. Some people will help and some will hurt each other, and it might not be who you expect. Discount no one.

Sahej, you forgot to add, “Be…. excellent to each other…. party on dude..”

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By: chick pea http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2006/10/02/dearest_pecola/comment-page-5/#comment-91951 chick pea Fri, 06 Oct 2006 11:08:10 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=3831#comment-91951 <p>mr. huey...all of anchal's blog angst has been wrtten about <a href="http://www.sepiamutiny.com/sepia/archives/003807.html">before here</a>... i think it's a tactic for her to harness sympathy from tyra and the others on the panel... people on that show have played the race, i am going blind, etc..card before..(thanks miss shruti as well since i see your link)..</p> <p>ahh mr. hairy peas on earth and happy legumes to you all ;)... (miss shruti that one is FOR YOU!)</p> <p>miss anna: great title.. you always have layers of insight in everything you write about.. much appreciated.</p> mr. huey…all of anchal’s blog angst has been wrtten about before here… i think it’s a tactic for her to harness sympathy from tyra and the others on the panel… people on that show have played the race, i am going blind, etc..card before..(thanks miss shruti as well since i see your link)..

ahh mr. hairy peas on earth and happy legumes to you all ;) … (miss shruti that one is FOR YOU!)

miss anna: great title.. you always have layers of insight in everything you write about.. much appreciated.

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