Comments on: Before the Wick is Dipped… http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2006/05/11/before_the_wick/ All that flavorful brownness in one savory packet Sat, 30 Nov 2013 11:11:28 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Parul http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2006/05/11/before_the_wick/comment-page-4/#comment-62910 Parul Thu, 18 May 2006 19:26:39 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=3367#comment-62910 <p>Ms Fink Nottle:</p> <p>:) :) cute</p> Ms Fink Nottle:

:) :) cute

]]> By: Ms Fink Nottle http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2006/05/11/before_the_wick/comment-page-4/#comment-62593 Ms Fink Nottle Wed, 17 May 2006 02:26:49 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=3367#comment-62593 <p>oh espressa, I so love the phrase "booby talk" :)!!!!</p> <p>Booby Talk? May be booby trap Penis Talk? ...oh but its under wraps!</p> <p>Yours with a wink Ms Fink</p> oh espressa, I so love the phrase “booby talk” :) !!!!

Booby Talk? May be booby trap Penis Talk? …oh but its under wraps!

Yours with a wink Ms Fink

]]> By: Kenyandesi http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2006/05/11/before_the_wick/comment-page-4/#comment-62589 Kenyandesi Wed, 17 May 2006 02:03:05 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=3367#comment-62589 <p>If anyone wants to know, female condoms are rather cumbersome because they are very slimy and can easily slip either wholly into the woman or to the side making their correct use (especially initially) rather difficult. On the other hand they are very thin (the ones I've seen in the USA), the thicker ring, because it sits outside the vagina, may provide a woman with clitoral stimulation during intercourse and as someone pointed out because of the heat retention seem to decrease sensitivity less. I know some women/men who prefer them, and some who hate them.</p> <p>Whatever your choice of glove, they are the only methods of potentially preventing STDs (bonus: this includes the pitter patter type :)</p> If anyone wants to know, female condoms are rather cumbersome because they are very slimy and can easily slip either wholly into the woman or to the side making their correct use (especially initially) rather difficult. On the other hand they are very thin (the ones I’ve seen in the USA), the thicker ring, because it sits outside the vagina, may provide a woman with clitoral stimulation during intercourse and as someone pointed out because of the heat retention seem to decrease sensitivity less. I know some women/men who prefer them, and some who hate them.

Whatever your choice of glove, they are the only methods of potentially preventing STDs (bonus: this includes the pitter patter type :)

]]> By: espressa http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2006/05/11/before_the_wick/comment-page-4/#comment-62585 espressa Wed, 17 May 2006 01:41:47 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=3367#comment-62585 <p>I don't want to add another log to this blaze but I don't think its fair to suggest that the ideal body, save cup size (of either sex)(do athletic cups come in sizes?), is attainable with sufficient effort. E.g., I've wanted a four-pack since Janet Jackson's <i>That's the Way Love Goes </i> video. I've run the miles, declines an ice cream sundae or two, and, well, I'm still hopeful. TrimSpa maybe? Improvement is always possible but by simply identifying a preference, we're being somewhat exclusionary. Maybe if I had Madonna's personal trainer?</p> <p>Of course SM has every right to moderate comments as y'all wish, but I don't think CAD's comments were objectively objectionable. Also, penis size is not as readily open to public judgement as boobies are and women are historically more subject to physical judgement than men, so I submit that they are different and that penis talk much much less offensive than boobie talk.</p> I don’t want to add another log to this blaze but I don’t think its fair to suggest that the ideal body, save cup size (of either sex)(do athletic cups come in sizes?), is attainable with sufficient effort. E.g., I’ve wanted a four-pack since Janet Jackson’s That’s the Way Love Goes video. I’ve run the miles, declines an ice cream sundae or two, and, well, I’m still hopeful. TrimSpa maybe? Improvement is always possible but by simply identifying a preference, we’re being somewhat exclusionary. Maybe if I had Madonna’s personal trainer?

Of course SM has every right to moderate comments as y’all wish, but I don’t think CAD’s comments were objectively objectionable. Also, penis size is not as readily open to public judgement as boobies are and women are historically more subject to physical judgement than men, so I submit that they are different and that penis talk much much less offensive than boobie talk.

]]> By: CAD http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2006/05/11/before_the_wick/comment-page-4/#comment-62575 CAD Wed, 17 May 2006 01:03:11 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=3367#comment-62575 <p><b>Sahej:</b></p> <blockquote>even CAD said, her ideal man need only have an "average" size tool.</blockquote> <p>Thanks for pointing this out ;)</p> Sahej:

even CAD said, her ideal man need only have an “average” size tool.

Thanks for pointing this out ;)

]]> By: Sahej http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2006/05/11/before_the_wick/comment-page-3/#comment-62549 Sahej Tue, 16 May 2006 22:47:57 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=3367#comment-62549 <p>true, one can work on their abs. but even more so than that, what it occured to me is, what is the point? yes we're all at base attracted to physical things, being as we're 99% monkey, but we also have a brain. i'd like to imagine people like to be fit because it means a person is committed to taking caring of themselves. at the same time, as long as a person is not mean-spirited about having a preference, that's their perogative too</p> <p>its understandable and decent to comment as you did Anna, and i'd like to think i'd do the same if roles were reversed. but, one can't stop human nature. on the flip side it'd be awesome if human nature accomodated multiple preferences. which it probably does.</p> <p>on a related note, as an aside i wonder how many desi people or people in general assume the opposite when it comes to preferences about the other gender; meaning they think the other "side" has much more onerous standards then is reality. even CAD said, her ideal man need only have an "average" size tool. average isn't that hard to attain. standards is (not) high, to paraphrase De La Soul. It would be a really superficial person who would stake their claim to love on tool or boob size wouldn't it?</p> true, one can work on their abs. but even more so than that, what it occured to me is, what is the point? yes we’re all at base attracted to physical things, being as we’re 99% monkey, but we also have a brain. i’d like to imagine people like to be fit because it means a person is committed to taking caring of themselves. at the same time, as long as a person is not mean-spirited about having a preference, that’s their perogative too

its understandable and decent to comment as you did Anna, and i’d like to think i’d do the same if roles were reversed. but, one can’t stop human nature. on the flip side it’d be awesome if human nature accomodated multiple preferences. which it probably does.

on a related note, as an aside i wonder how many desi people or people in general assume the opposite when it comes to preferences about the other gender; meaning they think the other “side” has much more onerous standards then is reality. even CAD said, her ideal man need only have an “average” size tool. average isn’t that hard to attain. standards is (not) high, to paraphrase De La Soul. It would be a really superficial person who would stake their claim to love on tool or boob size wouldn’t it?

]]> By: Ms Fink Nottle http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2006/05/11/before_the_wick/comment-page-3/#comment-62548 Ms Fink Nottle Tue, 16 May 2006 22:43:54 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=3367#comment-62548 <p>Oh no, cue for assorted "Get BIG in 10 days" type ads to start flooding this thread :)...</p> Oh no, cue for assorted “Get BIG in 10 days” type ads to start flooding this thread :) …

]]> By: A N N A http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2006/05/11/before_the_wick/comment-page-3/#comment-62544 A N N A Tue, 16 May 2006 22:31:57 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=3367#comment-62544 <blockquote>a lot of women like six pack abs too.</blockquote> <p>Again, those are different from a penis. It's actually possible to improve your abs, whereas...</p> a lot of women like six pack abs too.

Again, those are different from a penis. It’s actually possible to improve your abs, whereas…

]]> By: Sahej http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2006/05/11/before_the_wick/comment-page-3/#comment-62461 Sahej Tue, 16 May 2006 06:06:16 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=3367#comment-62461 <p>but given the way things are (and why did i post at all)....but while i lack six pack abs, thats all i cop to</p> but given the way things are (and why did i post at all)….but while i lack six pack abs, thats all i cop to

]]> By: Sahej http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2006/05/11/before_the_wick/comment-page-3/#comment-62460 Sahej Tue, 16 May 2006 06:02:34 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=3367#comment-62460 <p>i was not offended by CAD's preference, its not a secret that some (most/all/who cares) women prefer similiar. a lot of women like six pack abs too. is the world going to end because of that? maybe my dating world</p> i was not offended by CAD’s preference, its not a secret that some (most/all/who cares) women prefer similiar. a lot of women like six pack abs too. is the world going to end because of that? maybe my dating world

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