Comments on: The Barmaid’s Tale http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2006/04/21/the_barmaids_ta/ All that flavorful brownness in one savory packet Sat, 30 Nov 2013 11:11:28 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: A N N A http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2006/04/21/the_barmaids_ta/comment-page-1/#comment-208253 A N N A Thu, 10 Jul 2008 03:43:54 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=3289#comment-208253 <p><i>30 · <b>rose</b> <a href="http://www.sepiamutiny.com/sepia/archives/003289.html#comment208233">said</a></i></p> <blockquote>it's been awhile, but i have been wondering what happened to loveandhaterade. did the barmaid move sites and i just didn't get the memo?</blockquote> <p>Darling girl*, the site is no longer up-- she didn't move. You were not left off the "memo". :)</p> <p>*I'm assuming you are "my" rose, a.k.a. Rose A. If you are not, pardon my effusive familiarity.</p> 30 · rose said

it’s been awhile, but i have been wondering what happened to loveandhaterade. did the barmaid move sites and i just didn’t get the memo?

Darling girl*, the site is no longer up– she didn’t move. You were not left off the “memo”. :)

*I’m assuming you are “my” rose, a.k.a. Rose A. If you are not, pardon my effusive familiarity.

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By: rose http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2006/04/21/the_barmaids_ta/comment-page-1/#comment-208233 rose Thu, 10 Jul 2008 02:41:02 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=3289#comment-208233 <p>it's been awhile, but i have been wondering what happened to loveandhaterade. did the barmaid move sites and i just didn't get the memo?</p> it’s been awhile, but i have been wondering what happened to loveandhaterade. did the barmaid move sites and i just didn’t get the memo?

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By: priya http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2006/04/21/the_barmaids_ta/comment-page-1/#comment-57343 priya Tue, 25 Apr 2006 03:39:04 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=3289#comment-57343 <p>Many fellow dancers will get offended by this comment, but I attribute much of my sexual prowess to my years of classical dance, an activity approved and encouraged by my ultra-conservative parents.</p> <p>Of course, the only time you really get good at expressions is when you have some experience, so I wonder what my teacher and the aunties, think... that we're just good at imitating the teacher, and don't really realize what it means?</p> <p>There are a lot of sexual metaphors in classic hindu literature and mythology, and dance started out being a big part of that, until it was brahminicized.</p> Many fellow dancers will get offended by this comment, but I attribute much of my sexual prowess to my years of classical dance, an activity approved and encouraged by my ultra-conservative parents.

Of course, the only time you really get good at expressions is when you have some experience, so I wonder what my teacher and the aunties, think… that we’re just good at imitating the teacher, and don’t really realize what it means?

There are a lot of sexual metaphors in classic hindu literature and mythology, and dance started out being a big part of that, until it was brahminicized.

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By: coco http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2006/04/21/the_barmaids_ta/comment-page-1/#comment-57251 coco Mon, 24 Apr 2006 23:04:32 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=3289#comment-57251 <p>what about the link between classical dance and eyefucking? i'd like some more info -- how heightened is is this skill by classical training?</p> what about the link between classical dance and eyefucking? i’d like some more info — how heightened is is this skill by classical training?

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By: nofixedadderess http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2006/04/21/the_barmaids_ta/comment-page-1/#comment-56942 nofixedadderess Mon, 24 Apr 2006 06:13:54 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=3289#comment-56942 <p>relax rama dude, u remind of myself...touchy,hyper-sens,ready to jump at any-everything.</p> <p>much honor to be branded alongwith ms barmaid......sadly though,i would have preferred to be branded with her on account of intellect being the common denominator and not gender.. and that my gender in this case was assumed,and assumed wrongly makes it slightly more uncomfortable than it already was.</p> <p>anyways,i cant really comment on what u were saying coz i am not really clear what exactly it was........i do admit however that as u assumed(rightly this time),i really do not find FOB males attractive(maybe my being a FOB,and a male to top has something to do with it)</p> <p>p.s:- hate working on sundays</p> relax rama dude, u remind of myself…touchy,hyper-sens,ready to jump at any-everything.

much honor to be branded alongwith ms barmaid……sadly though,i would have preferred to be branded with her on account of intellect being the common denominator and not gender.. and that my gender in this case was assumed,and assumed wrongly makes it slightly more uncomfortable than it already was.

anyways,i cant really comment on what u were saying coz i am not really clear what exactly it was……..i do admit however that as u assumed(rightly this time),i really do not find FOB males attractive(maybe my being a FOB,and a male to top has something to do with it)

p.s:- hate working on sundays

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By: Rama http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2006/04/21/the_barmaids_ta/comment-page-1/#comment-56877 Rama Sun, 23 Apr 2006 23:32:54 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=3289#comment-56877 <p>oops...didn't get a chance to finish my thoughts in my last post...</p> <p>...yet even if a woman is the greatest dancer or the best conversationalist, a lot of guys will just pass her by or laugh behind her back at her attempts at flirting if they don't think she's attractive.</p> <p>And before the name-calling-to-avoid-a-response starts, no I'm not a FOB, and no I'm not an unattractive guy. I'm just a guy who has hung out with enough groups of female and male friends to see that this pattern of behavior exists on both sides.</p> <p>If you don't find FOB men attractive, just come out and say it. But next time the hot blonde surfer dude eyes you suggestively and you smile in response, think about this.</p> oops…didn’t get a chance to finish my thoughts in my last post…

…yet even if a woman is the greatest dancer or the best conversationalist, a lot of guys will just pass her by or laugh behind her back at her attempts at flirting if they don’t think she’s attractive.

And before the name-calling-to-avoid-a-response starts, no I’m not a FOB, and no I’m not an unattractive guy. I’m just a guy who has hung out with enough groups of female and male friends to see that this pattern of behavior exists on both sides.

If you don’t find FOB men attractive, just come out and say it. But next time the hot blonde surfer dude eyes you suggestively and you smile in response, think about this.

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By: Rama http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2006/04/21/the_barmaids_ta/comment-page-1/#comment-56862 Rama Sun, 23 Apr 2006 22:11:14 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=3289#comment-56862 <p>nofixedaddress said "as for eyefucking.....i dont think desis(from the fobland) are good at eyefucking at all......the guys might be good at 'eye-sexualharassing' or worse still,'eye-raping' but the definition entails a mutuality of desire and bilaterality of purpose......we usually dont have it!!"</p> <p>nofixedaddress/barmaid- face it, ladies, if you think a guy is cute he can pretty much eye-anything-he-wants-to-you and you'll think it's cute. If you don't find him attractive, then suddenly it's "icky". Same applies to the guys, just in a different way- a hot woman can say as few words as she wants and the guys will still stick to her like glue.</p> nofixedaddress said “as for eyefucking…..i dont think desis(from the fobland) are good at eyefucking at all……the guys might be good at ‘eye-sexualharassing’ or worse still,’eye-raping’ but the definition entails a mutuality of desire and bilaterality of purpose……we usually dont have it!!”

nofixedaddress/barmaid- face it, ladies, if you think a guy is cute he can pretty much eye-anything-he-wants-to-you and you’ll think it’s cute. If you don’t find him attractive, then suddenly it’s “icky”. Same applies to the guys, just in a different way- a hot woman can say as few words as she wants and the guys will still stick to her like glue.

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By: arre yaar! http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2006/04/21/the_barmaids_ta/comment-page-1/#comment-56814 arre yaar! Sun, 23 Apr 2006 11:35:21 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=3289#comment-56814 <p>I used to think that the heavy metal ref i.e. ripping eye sockets etc was eyefucking. but thanks to Maledicta Marauder's link now I kno, thanks :)</p> I used to think that the heavy metal ref i.e. ripping eye sockets etc was eyefucking. but thanks to Maledicta Marauder’s link now I kno, thanks :)

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By: Maledicta Marauder http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2006/04/21/the_barmaids_ta/comment-page-1/#comment-56810 Maledicta Marauder Sun, 23 Apr 2006 08:25:34 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=3289#comment-56810 <p>The lost art of malediction... nobody knows the difference between eyefucking and <a href="http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=skullfucking">skullfucking</a> any more? :)</p> The lost art of malediction… nobody knows the difference between eyefucking and skullfucking any more? :)

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By: DesiDancer http://sepiamutiny.com/blog/2006/04/21/the_barmaids_ta/comment-page-1/#comment-56800 DesiDancer Sun, 23 Apr 2006 02:56:49 +0000 http://sepiamutiny.com?p=3289#comment-56800 <blockquote>"Eyefuck"... I shall be honest and admit that when I was high-school I thought this had something to do with a person's eye-socket.</blockquote> <p>depending how old you are, it's an innocent mistake. I believe there was a dialogue in "Heavy Metal" about ripping off somebody's head and fucking their eye sockets. Or was it their neck-stump... oh well, now that I've dated myself, I shall leave, shaking my fist and cursing 'these kids today'...</p> “Eyefuck”… I shall be honest and admit that when I was high-school I thought this had something to do with a person’s eye-socket.

depending how old you are, it’s an innocent mistake. I believe there was a dialogue in “Heavy Metal” about ripping off somebody’s head and fucking their eye sockets. Or was it their neck-stump… oh well, now that I’ve dated myself, I shall leave, shaking my fist and cursing ‘these kids today’…

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