Whether you choose to deny it or not, there are only two groups of Asian women who choose to have a western BF:

1) usually the ugly or abnormal ones who can get a normal Asian BF, so relunctantly degrade to go out with a white guy 2) those with financial disadvantages (remember, money can buy sex but not love) who accompanying different men for $

Never believe what the American published magazines or dating websites talked about how Asian girls prefer white males in the survey and so on. There are so many countries in Asia, there’re already hugh cultural differences and appearance between East Asian and South East Asia. As for the physical attractiveness, E Asian girls have different perspective, and most of them think that we white men are brainless, hairy meatheads, arrogant and smelly. Sad but true, becaus I’ve been dating many Asian girls and know what they think in general.

ALSO ASIAN GIRLS DO NOT REALISE THIS BUT IT TAKES AN ASIAN MAN TO PRODUCE A REALLY PRETTY ASAIN GIRL. ANYONE SEEN A MIZED BABY LOOK AS PRETTY AS THEIR MOTHER???

Postal service says it well: replace “movie” with “bollywood movie” and “london underground” with “metro in paris” and “you” with “my abcd princess” “I was waiting for a cross-town train in the london underground When it struck me that i’ve been waiting since birth to find A love that would look and sound like a movie so i changed my plans and rented a camera and a van and then i called you”

i suffer from mild dementia, i realize this, but the day at work goes by SOOO much faster!!

As for this sect of 30 something ladies…tell me more, they seem to be your bread and butter as i’m assumming you’re in that age group.

I wouldn’t necessarily call them my “bread and butter” but yes I am in that age bracket. It also includes desi women in their late 20s too.

As with most things it just depends on the particular individual; there are plenty of decent women out there who fit the description in your earlier post and are still single just because they haven’t met the right guy yet. With others, however, they are single for the “wrong” reasons, ie. they’re excessively demanding in their expectations (more so than Caucasian women, ironically), or are addicted to the single lifestyle (regardless of what they might say), or are saying/doing something very wrong indeed which is putting guys off.

There are other factors of course involving the complications of desi families (especially parents), who can deliberately or inadvertantly sabotage matters. Apart from the fact that South Asian culture in general can be a little more political and ego-driven than “normal” Western culture, the whole thing about “marriage is between two families not just two individuals” can also make these matters a real minefield — so there’s a significant complicating factor there which is perhaps less of an issue when it comes to white women.

But as I said before, there are decent desi women out there who are also from cool families. Assuming that the “right” woman for you isn’t already in a steady long-term relationship with someone else or indeed married, of course

In which case you need to make a decision as to whether you’re going to restrict your options marriage-wise to just desi women or if you’re going to also seriously — and realistically — consider white/non-South Asian women too….Which is a whole different topic, albeit one semi-related to this thread’s original subject

Or planning to divorce you after you can’t lose pregnancy weight/get wrinkly/are overshadowed by his hot new secretary.

Thats why you gotta meet her moms before, no future surprises

sorry i’m an ass

At first in a hurry I read it as male reduction camp….missed that bold E….being blind, I wouldn’t blame myself either:)

I will be the first person to sign in…How much is the fee.

Yea well that’s what women want too, you dumbasses!

not ya’ll personally. just saying

jsut change the pronouns and tinker a bit for:

“naughty [on the outside] but nice [on the inside]” is the best balance… because he’ll be fun to be with but simultaneously you don’t have to worry about him cheating on you with all those alleged female “friends” who keep phoning him up. Or being after you just for the easy lay. Or planning to divorce you after you can’t lose pregnancy weight/get wrinkly/are overshadowed by his hot new secretary.

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As for this sect of 30 something ladies…tell me more, they seem to be your bread and butter as i’m assumming you’re in that age group.

You’ve heard of the movie! no shit, thats awesome. I basically tell everyone i know about it.

The lyrics to that song by Kanye do make me laugh ! Innovative video too.

I agree to that, however nice can be boring, literally all of the coolest,outgoing, strong, intelligent single desi ladies i know (did i forget beautiful) are like 30 something and are professional women who live the sex and the city lifestyle

When I said “nice” I meant “good-natured” — I agree completely about the cool desi ladies you’ve just mentioned, but you definitely don’t want to be with the kind who are all of the above but take it way too far — the type who go to self-destructive extremes. Or who will be fixated on being “scandalous and unconventional” just for the ego-trip.

You know what I mean — I’ve said this before a couple of times on other threads — “naughty [on the outside] but nice [on the inside]” is the best balance as far as I’m concerned, because she’ll be fun to be with but simultaneously you don’t have to worry about her cheating on you with all those alleged male “friends” who keep phoning her up. Or her being after you just for the money & lifestyle. Or planning to divorce you and take half your house just for the scandal-factor.

if i’m lucky perhaps i’ll end up with one of these types.

They are out there, believe me….

If you live in NYC,

I live in the UK but thanks for the heads-up buddy — I have actually heard of that movie, so will keep an eye out for it if it’s released over here in the United States of Ingerlaanda